Fighting our Church Tendencies

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Here’s the reality about us humans especially when we get connected in a group of other humans: we tend to turn inward. I don’t know that we do it on purpose or that we have any poor intentions but it just happens. We really enjoy the feeling of being connected and belonging some place. It’s not that we don’t care about people who are on the outside, we just don’t think about it. I mean life is busy and when we get a minute of true connection we just want to bask in it. The reality is connection is what we are made for, God hardwired it into us. So being connected and enjoying life with others is not wrong, it’s very very right. Yet, knowing this tendency about ourselves is important if we’re going to make sure that we both belong AND create belonging for others.

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Does the Environment at Church Matter?

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I’ve been thinking lately about the power of an environment. A little while ago I was able to go on a trip with my wife Lisa to the Dominican Republic. We stayed in a resort where we could literally walk onto the beach. One morning we woke up before the sun and so we ventured out to watch the sunrise. I can’t remember the last time I did that and I never had done it on a beach on an island. Before I go any further, I should tell you I grew up around a lot of amazing technology, watched movies where they could do amazing things and populate my desktop background images with the most amazing pictures you could imagine. And yet as I stood there waiting, watching the horizon, it happened, the same thing that happens everyday whether I’m there to see it or not – the sun rose. It sounds so cheap to write that, because the sun didn’t just rise, it exploded in the most majestic, dare I say holy array of colors. Immediately I wondered, who am I that God would think of me? I mean look at what He can do and look at what He does with barely a thought, everyday whether someone is there to admire it or not. What that environment did to me was nothing short of miraculous. My mind rushed with awe, love, admiration, worship and humility. I was impacted by what God did and continues to do. And I realized something, God creates environments and it’s in environments that God does some incredible work. And what was also fascinating is how hundreds, thousands of people can experience the same environment I did and not be changed by it, drawn to Jesus and transformed, but that’s probably for another blog post.

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#FuelGrace

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As I read the Scriptures, particularly the book of Acts we see people on the move, a church on mission and it’s exciting. It’s not without significant challenges to overcome, fears to fight through and people to love and sometimes lovingly confront. I can’t imagine what it must have been like to be one of those early pastors. And in light of our theme of #FuelGrace I noticed some other interesting things about that early church. They were fueled regularly. There were people and resources that were provided in order to see the mission go forward. In some cases it was merely the encouragement of people they met. In other cases it was some physical resource or money that allowed an aspect of the mission to go forward. In still other cases there were people who jumped on board and said, “count me in”. Each one of those actions fueled the work of God. But here’s where it got a little interesting for me: who was really “fueled” in those cases?

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Guest Post: The Heart of Worship – A Journey to Intimacy – Nic Payne

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-What’s ahead and Why?
-The Case for Worship
-Extrinsic Action Creates Intrinsic Emotion (The 7 words for worship)
-Style is not part of the equation, but intimacy is
-In Spirit and in Truth

What’s ahead and Why?

We have a unique opportunity ahead of us as a church family. Friday, February 3rd will be our first church-wide worship night at Grace. And as excited as we all are in planning it, I started asking myself why? We’ve been talking about a worship night for years. So, why now? Is it necessary?

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Part of My Story at Grace – part 6: conclusion

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I am so encouraged by all of you who’ve let me know you’ve been reading this series. Thanks for taking the time to consider these important subjects with me. So far we’ve seen the frustration of leaders who are called to make a difference and for some reason seem hindered or sense the need for a breakthrough or a change. We saw the value in asking for help and coming alongside of others in the church. God used some fellow Christians and experienced church leaders (Intentional Churches) to help us see what we couldn’t seem to see on our own. We then got busy identifying 3 key areas that are important right now: Small groups, Game Day and Facility. (By the way, we are likely to identify more areas after we see resolution to our current 3 as we want to continue to strive to be the most effective as possible for God’s glory and His mission). So in today’s post, I want to conclude the facility section and invite you to be a part of our future together. (And also conclude some “teases” I’ve made throughout the series – so buckle up!)

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Part of My Story at Grace Part 5

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We come to the second to last post in the blog series. In our next post I’m going to share the thing that I didn’t expect to see lately and the thing that truly pushes this over the edge.
But first, we need to cover the final “WIN” team. As you recall, we developed 3 areas that need to be addressed now (WIN = What’s Important Now). So far we’ve looked at our “Small Group Model Rebuild”; our “Weekend Experience Renewal:Game Day”. And now the final area: “Facility Expansion/ Enhancement”.

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Part of My Story at Grace Church Part 4

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So grateful to those of you reading this extended blog series. This is such important stuff to the future of our church and I don’t have a lot of places I can share this and none that I can share in this amount of detail. Thank you for reading and being such a key part of our church! I pray you’ll be able to share this with others and help us all catch God’s vision for where we’re headed. Needless to say, please make sure you read the previous parts before diving into today’s.

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Part of My Grace Church Story part 3

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Ok so far we’ve looked at the struggle of a pastor wanting to make a difference, loving people and out of answers. In God’s perfect timing, He connected us to a group of pastors who want to serve other churches and help them be effective in the Great Commission. What came out of our process was not what we thought would come out of that process.

I’m not sure I mentioned this in an earlier post, but you should know that for several years now, many of our ministry staff kept serving faithfully yet wondering secretly if we were missing something. We were committed to being innovative and tried all kinds of things. In fact, besides one thing I didn’t want to even talk about, we tried everything else we could think about. (That one thing, by the way, is likely where this blog series will end after a few more installments, sorry to tease you, but I need to bring you along in the process so you can see what I saw (that I didn’t want to see!)).

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Part of my Story at Grace Church part 2

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If you haven’t yet read part 1, please do so, as the journey is important to the conclusions.

So last summer I had a phone call with Doug Parks. Actually, I should go back a little ways. I typically watch, read, listen to whatever I can get my hands on re:best practices— churches or ministries who are effective in God’s mission etc. I am always looking to learn, adapt and integrate. One webinar I watched was from the Leadership Network and on it the lead pastor mentioned a “dashboard” that they use to determine how they are doing as a church. This “dashboard” found a way to measure things that were previously unmeasurable (or so I thought) and was a tool that could be used by God to help us go forward. In fact churches who were using this had experienced major breakthroughs! I quickly shot an email to the presenter and asked about this. He said, “you really should talk to my executive pastor, Dave Smith as he’s the expert on that stuff.” So I connected with Dave and after a short conversation I was put in touch with Doug Parks. Doug is the cofounder of a ministry called “Intentional Churches”. They come alongside of churches and help them. I was skeptical, as believe it or not, there are a ton of people out there trying to sell you something or give you the latest “quick fix” to your church challenges”. (Remember, I was feeling like we needed a break through, as nothing seemed to be having the intended impact. However I wasn’t about to fall for some gimmick.) I was very skeptical throughout the few phone calls we had. There were however two things that caught my attention. One was their track record – they told me about specific churches who had seen double or triple the impact in just 3-4 years! (And they put me in touch with the pastors of those churches!) And secondly, they weren’t selling a product, there was no quick fix, no video program, no book to read. What they specialized in was a process. A process where our leaders, our pastors, our staff could gather in a room for 2-3 days and be lead through a discovery process. We (not some consultant) would discover what is holding us back, we would creatively dream about next steps and we would develop teams and initiatives to put in motion. Then after the “process” they would provide us with a coach who would travel with us for 12 months helping us along the way to follow through on what we said we’d do and navigating through the road blocks.

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